Can Coercive Control Exist in a ‘Healthy’ Relationship?
Coercive control and a healthy relationship cannot coexist. By definition, coercive control violates the core principles of respect, equality, and trust that define a healthy partnership. In a healthy relationship, both partners support each other’s independence, freedom of choice, and personal growth. Coercive control, however, erodes these qualities by fostering dependency, instilling fear, and undermining self-worth. When coercive control enters a relationship, it damages trust and stability, transforming what may have seemed “healthy” into a harmful environment.
At Family Violence Mindset Solutions, our Coercive Control Course educates individuals about the behaviours that distinguish healthy relationships from abusive dynamics.
How to Identify Coercive Control in Relationships
- Loss of Independence – In a healthy relationship, both partners support each other’s autonomy. Coercive control, however, restricts one partner’s independence.
- Equality vs. Power Imbalance – Healthy relationships are based on equality, whereas coercive control establishes a distinct power imbalance.
- Open Communication – Coercive control uses secrecy, manipulation, or intimidation, contrasting with the open communication in healthy relationships.
- Respect for Boundaries – Healthy relationships honour personal boundaries, but coercive control disregards them, controlling and dictating the victim’s choices.
Our course provides insights into fostering healthy relationships while identifying the red flags of coercive control. Learn more about recognising and maintaining healthy relationship dynamics.
Supporting Healthy Relationships Through Awareness
Recognising coercive control early is essential for maintaining a respectful and empowering relationship. Family Violence Mindset Solutions offers tools to help individuals assess their relationships and take steps toward greater well-being. Contact us for more information on fostering healthy relationship practices.