Common Background Patterns of Those Who Use Coercive Control
While coercive control can occur in any relationship, certain patterns may appear in the backgrounds or experiences of those who use this behaviour. These patterns often involve exposure to control in family environments, past trauma, or societal norms that reinforce power dynamics. Understanding these patterns is not about excusing the behaviour but recognising potential influences. By identifying these factors, individuals can address the underlying issues that contribute to controlling behaviours.
Our Family Violence Mindset Solutions Coercive Control Course explores common patterns and provides tools for self-awareness and change.
Common Patterns in Backgrounds of Coercive Controllers
- Exposure to Control in Family – Growing up in environments where control was normalised can make coercive behaviour feel familiar.
- Past Trauma or Insecurity – Individuals with unresolved trauma or insecurity may use control to avoid vulnerability or perceived threats.
- Cultural Reinforcement – Cultural beliefs that promote dominance or rigid relationship roles may lead to coercive behaviour.
- Poor Emotional Regulation – Difficulty managing emotions can lead to control as a way of coping with internal insecurities.
- Low Self-Esteem – Individuals with low self-worth may use control to feel a sense of power and validation in relationships.
Our resources at Family Violence Mindset Solutions provide insights into these patterns, offering support for positive change and self-reflection. Learn more about understanding coercive behaviour backgrounds.
Recognising Patterns for Positive Transformation
Awareness of background patterns helps foster healthier relationship dynamics. Family Violence Mindset Solutions offers tools to support self-awareness and growth. Contact us for guidance on addressing coercive patterns.